As an introvert, I appreciate songs like this. 21, in college, and every weekend, I get invited to parties by friends and others. Yet, I always say no. I rather stay in my dorm, listening to music, playing video games, or browsing the internet.
Stephanie D:
This is such an incredible song and exactly how I felt through my whole 20s. Very soulful, can’t stand the drunks.
Kessy Rose:
Her debut song slapped so hard, we should have hyped her up the same way we did Olivia Rodriguo, she is so underrated
IRS:
It’s like we enjoyed so many of these kinda songs when we were younger but as we grow older we truly begin to understand and relate to the lyrics
Sam Bell:
This song popped in my head completely out of the blue, must be 3-4 years since i've heard this. I feel ashamed I forgot all about this masterpiece.
Someone U don't know:
alessia cara is so underrated, she deserves a lot more, this song really was a hit when i was 10 and now i understand why
Marisel Ramos:
1/2022 - still love this song. And loving her latest album even more. Love the sound of her voice. Soulful 🥰🙏🏽
tran thi to quyen:
Lyrics:
I'm sorry if I seem uninterested
Or I'm not listenin' or I'm indifferent
Truly, I ain't got no business here
But since my friends are here, I just came to kick it
But really I would rather be at home all by myself not in this room
With people who don't even care about my well being
I don't dance, don't ask, I don't need a boyfriend
So you can go back, please enjoy your party
I'll be here
Somewhere in the corner under clouds of marijuana
With this boy who's hollering, I can hardly hear
Over this music I don't listen to and I don't wanna get with you
So tell my friends that I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Excuse me if I seem a little unimpressed with this
An anti-social pessimist, but usually I don't mess with this
And I know you mean only the best
And your intentions aren't to bother me
But honestly I'd rather be
Somewhere with my people we can kick it and just listen
To some music with the message (like we usually do)
And we'll discuss our big dreams
How we plan to take over the planet
So pardon my manners, I hope you'll understand
That I'll be here
Not there in the kitchen with the girl
Who's always gossiping about her friends
So tell them I'll be here
Right next to the boy who's throwing up
'Cause he can't take what's in his cup no more
Oh God, why am I here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Hours later congregating next to the refrigerator
Some girl's talking 'bout her haters
She ain't got none
How did it ever come to this
I shoulda never come to this
So holla at me, I'll be in the car when you're done
I'm standoffish, don't want what you're offering
And I'm done talking
Awfully sad it had to be that way
So tell my people when they're ready that I'm ready
And I'm standing by the TV with my beanie low
Yo, I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
ChinzTv:
In 2022, this song is still a masterpiece. I remember first hearing this in 2015 having it on repeat 🔥🔥👏🏾
Great Work Alessia 💯
TheNewgreatlife:
This song is a beautifully perfect example of the direction R&B should have gone more from the 2010s to today. This song and her vocals are soulful and neither the song nor the subject material is boring. I love her even more now that she sings the theme song to Blade Runner: Black Lotus on Adult Swim/Toonami.
Magae Tshwanela:
Don't worry,you're not alone listening to this masterpiece in 2021.
Arthur Soto:
I remember hearing this song when it first came out ij 2015 thinking "this singer's going to make it big!"
I'm really glad she did!
johnny depp is innocent:
This girl was my childhood and now that im coming back to her i still love her AHHH
Peter Rundev:
Thank you, Alessia! I've listened to this tune more than anyone else. I follow your path and start with covers and cinematic videos for them. I love piano instrument. You understand music ❤️
Aiyana Akna Abra:
This song is so Powerful Great example to children especially teens my children love ❤ this song alot. Thus song was in my generation growing up & eye love 😻 it still do am proud of her for releasing this song letting teens know just to be themselves and don't have to feel pressured by others who allow themselves to be pressured by the norms if society and its still happening this song stands for all time 🥰
Maria Fernanda Ferreira:
5 years after, and I'm still here
Kennedy Alexa:
This was my theme song in high school. I was so antisocial. And I cry listening to this song and looking back because I have evolved into a grown social butterfly. This song made me feel like I wasn’t alone.
karla:
uma das minhas músicas favoritas desse mundo inteirinho 🌎 ❤
Vanessa Tavarez:
😍😍Falling in love with this song day by day when I discovered alessia this was my first favorite song about her and happy 7 years to here since its next week we love you girl supporting you no matter what 🥰🥰💖💖
Turtle Turtle:
When you’re happy, you enjoy the music. When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics.
Yasuke:
If you’re listening to this in 2021 , respect .
TheYogina:
After decades of going out, I sooooooo know what she is talking about in this song. Deep!
It’s Just Imani:
I heard this song when I was 11, I'm now a 19 yr old university student and I finally get the meaning of this song. Word for word. Nuance for nuance. Wow
THE SMITH’S FAMILY PRANKS:
Love this song man!! Don’t care how old it gets !! You hit every word for me in how I feel 😍😘❤️🥰😘😍😘
Brunno Ferreira:
Está música marcou a minha adolescência! Todas as musicas da Alessia alias😍❤Me descreviam completamente. Mas essa tenho um carinho especial, sendo a primeira que ouvi e que me fez conhecer uma cantora maravilhosa e musicas incríveis! E que fez uma grande diferença na minha adolescência, tornando-a mais especial e menos tensa, em muitos momentos..❣
Chunky Medicine:
When I was in Middle school, this was just a fun happy song...
...Now re-listening to it... I've never related to anything more in my life.
🌆 • la simp de juleka • 🌆:
No puede ser que no tenga más reconocimiento,su voz es hermosa y su canción también,agradezco a tik tok por conocer está joyita
4rThur_:
sim, essa musica é muito boa ainda em 2022.
Alexis Alexander:
2022 BLASTING ON REPEAT ALL NIGHT 💛💚💙 "I Ask Myself What Am I Doing Here"
Jaiii🥰:
I love this song sm. It’s so relatable and has such a good flow💕
Sayo:
Still listening in 2022. this song is a masterpiece and it gives me so much nostalgia of 2015
Isabella Williams:
This comment is gonna get buried, but I still just wanted to come back to this video and say that I remember when it first came out and I didn't appreciate it enough. I didn't appreciate a lot of this music enough because it was the last era of music that was truly genuine and actual art. I thought most of it was somewhat stupid even though I really liked this song and I wish music like this would be mainstream again. ❤❤❤
Stephanie Bensen:
This song speaks to my soul ✨💗 You have an amazing voice Alessia. Thank you 🙏
Brandon E:
Timeless music. This is the definition of a transcendent masterpiece!
Mary Santos:
Eu aqui denovo ouvindo essa música perfeita... 🎶♥️ Alessia minha musa. 😍 2022
🌻SaRaH🌻:
Love this song
Lyrics-
I'm sorry if I seem uninterested
Or I'm not listenin' or I'm indifferent
Truly, I ain't got no business here
But since my friends are here, I just came to kick it
But really I would rather be at home all by myself not in this room
With people who don't even care about my well being
I don't dance, don't ask, I don't need a boyfriend
So you can go back, please enjoy your party
I'll be here
Somewhere in the corner under clouds of marijuana
With this boy who's hollering, I can hardly hear
Over this music I don't listen to and I don't wanna get with you
So tell my friends that I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Excuse me if I seem a little unimpressed with this
An anti-social pessimist, but usually I don't mess with this
And I know you mean only the best
And your intentions aren't to bother me
But honestly I'd rather be
Somewhere with my people we can kick it and just listen
To some music with the message (like we usually do)
And we'll discuss our big dreams
How we plan to take over the planet
So pardon my manners, I hope you'll understand
That I'll be here
Not there in the kitchen with the girl
Who's always gossiping about her friends
So tell them I'll be here
Right next to the boy who's throwing up
'Cause he can't take what's in his cup no more
Oh God, why am I here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Hours later congregating next to the refrigerator
Some girl's talking 'bout her haters
She ain't got none
How did it ever come to this
I shoulda never come to this
So holla at me, I'll be in the car when you're done
I'm standoffish, don't want what you're offering
And I'm done talking
Awfully sad it had to be that way
So tell my people when they're ready that I'm ready
And I'm standing by the TV with my beanie low
Yo, I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Emily Kaplan:
I've been in LOVE with your voice and music for YEARS girl! Much luv!
ishowsym:
knew this song for so long that i can sing it perfectly
Carol Cancian:
Acho que vou estar com 90 anos e ainda estarei ouvindo essa obra <3
Jerome Productions:
Never. Gets. Old. Just classic 🔥🔥
danmanryan17:
Honestly this song is timeless, it slapped when it came out, slaps now, it’ll slap in a decade from now+
Karol Silva:
2022,E eu ainda esculto essa musica ^_^
Luffy:
Bro I miss songs like this it’s hard to find songs like this nowadays 😭❤️🔥
Rodrigo Damasceno batera:
Eu amo essa música.♥️
FOXERINE:
" I would rather be at home not in this room with people who don't even care about my well being " best and most painful line ever 😭😭
Rosalba Merino mejia:
Hace 6 años la vi en Telehit musica del vtv ❤️
Baskerville1000:
This masterfully crafted song gives a near perfect description of how I feel and behave on most parties. 🤷♂️
Grant Weihl:
6 years and I listen to this song everyday and love it so so much
angel baby.:
Work of art truly. gives me the best feeling inside of my body whenever I listen to this song. It’s an amazing feeling.
LadyLotus:
This hits different when you don’t just feel this way about parties but your own friends, family and everyone you live with. I don’t just need a new party circle; I literally need to meet new people and completely start again somewhere new.
Amanda Bucci:
I’m so proud of you! I love this song so much!! Your so talented and can move mountains! Never forget that 😊
Cristian Flores:
Ella es una genio, merece más de lo que recibe.
Maily Ledesma:
2022 y sigo aquí, es una canción increíble ♥️♥️
tamari woods:
Here in 2022 favorite song for years know all the lyrics by heart and this is the one song I couldn’t ever get bored of<3
Alessia Cara:
thank you guys so much I read all of these comments and they're amazing 💙
Ansun189:
Love this song
1MightyR:
This'll be timeless! A classic!!🔥
Trinity alpaka:
en verdad no entiendo porque no sacas otro temazo como este,cantas demasiado bien,te amo
陳小春:
Don't worry,you're not alone listening to this masterpiece in 2022
LaDonna Mechelle:
6 years...and this is still the only song to ever capture the essence that is ME... forever grateful to be able to replay this whenever I need it...which is often
lasexual:
el remix quedo muy lindo
mela:
Apart from the song she is absolutely GORGEOUS!😍
Vearnon:
She is my favorite 😍every beat she spitting 🔥💯Bars
Phone Pyae:
1st time listening and it's go straight to my fav playlists
KrispyKidMari:
Crazy how she actually made this song while at a party
Hajarbel:
6 years after, and I'm still here
ikedi collins:
She is too good 2022 and am still coming back to this masterpiece
§øŃäŤůŘåŁŁý:
This song perfectly describes me!! 😩❤️😩
Kupkakee Sweetie:
This was my jam yrs ago , still here 2022 💘💘🫶🏼
Semira Roland:
Fun fact: quarantine makes us listen to old songs.
Flyin tycoon:
I grew up listening to this in 2015. This does bring back the best memories
Icy Fire:
Excellent song that will withstand the test of time & always be relatable!
EREN Q TE PISA:
Cada dia q passa eu quero mais ouvir essa música....
Yonahonah:
6 years after, and I’m still here 😌
selam temesgen:
the vibe , the lyrics , the video , alessia’s voice.
Mathijs:
The song still is so relatable, amazing song and damn Alessia, you are so talented 🔥
Shirley Nata Sasita:
Im not good at remembering things but the fact that i can remember this song even after years proves that it is a masterpiece
Akasha Macintyre:
How has this masterpiece not made it to 1 Billion yet ??!!
games visiteur:
this song will never die
Ana J:
This song hits different when your old enough too understand it 😪
Clinton Short:
A classic debut. A timeless song, Here. I don't know how many times I've watched this but I know how many times I will.
Kiesha McCall: ImJustSerious:
My daughter played this a few days ago and now I can't stop listening to it
Jubileen Harochoc Rebadeo:
Here I am after 6 years still can relate to this amazing song 💕
Kiwanna Williams:
Baby, it's 2022 and this is STILL my mantra...🙌🏾💞💯
L :D:
to all the anti-socials, rise to our national anthem.
Alexis Esparza:
Que bonita voz ❤
DumbButSad:
Masterpiece⚡🔥
Keon Swann:
this song so much deeper than i thought it was years ago… that’s what life do to you 😂crazy i really understand & go thru what she’s saying
Galaxysapphire:
Keep slaying this is a great song 💅
Rodolfo Gonzalez:
The flow is impeccable. Every beat, every lyric falls where it should. Written perfection.
Rice Noodles:
i love this song. thats all that needs to be said.
yellowbone:
As a Picsean who's extremely introverted this song totally relates to me.❤
Palak Kanwar:
I was in my 8th class of school when i heard this song first,,, and now im in clg ..its been 6 years but still here listing
c4n4l from anime and horror:
Her music is very, very cool, the singer is also very talented, very beautiful
A M H:
This can't be more accurate
As an introvert I hate parties , family reunions , meetings , etc...
A night alone with a laptop , a movie , and a comfy bed is heaven to me
Amber Faulkner:
6 yrs and still my mood 😩
Ken Herald:
What a voice. Wow
Sol12:
essa msc é tão boa
Princess W. 👑:
One of the best masterpieces made ♥️ love u girl ( 2022)
Dr. Edward Richtofen:
Stephanie D:
Kessy Rose:
IRS:
Sam Bell:
Someone U don't know:
Marisel Ramos:
tran thi to quyen:
I'm sorry if I seem uninterested
Or I'm not listenin' or I'm indifferent
Truly, I ain't got no business here
But since my friends are here, I just came to kick it
But really I would rather be at home all by myself not in this room
With people who don't even care about my well being
I don't dance, don't ask, I don't need a boyfriend
So you can go back, please enjoy your party
I'll be here
Somewhere in the corner under clouds of marijuana
With this boy who's hollering, I can hardly hear
Over this music I don't listen to and I don't wanna get with you
So tell my friends that I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Excuse me if I seem a little unimpressed with this
An anti-social pessimist, but usually I don't mess with this
And I know you mean only the best
And your intentions aren't to bother me
But honestly I'd rather be
Somewhere with my people we can kick it and just listen
To some music with the message (like we usually do)
And we'll discuss our big dreams
How we plan to take over the planet
So pardon my manners, I hope you'll understand
That I'll be here
Not there in the kitchen with the girl
Who's always gossiping about her friends
So tell them I'll be here
Right next to the boy who's throwing up
'Cause he can't take what's in his cup no more
Oh God, why am I here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Hours later congregating next to the refrigerator
Some girl's talking 'bout her haters
She ain't got none
How did it ever come to this
I shoulda never come to this
So holla at me, I'll be in the car when you're done
I'm standoffish, don't want what you're offering
And I'm done talking
Awfully sad it had to be that way
So tell my people when they're ready that I'm ready
And I'm standing by the TV with my beanie low
Yo, I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
ChinzTv:
Great Work Alessia 💯
TheNewgreatlife:
Magae Tshwanela:
Arthur Soto:
I'm really glad she did!
johnny depp is innocent:
Peter Rundev:
Aiyana Akna Abra:
Maria Fernanda Ferreira:
Kennedy Alexa:
karla:
Vanessa Tavarez:
Turtle Turtle:
Yasuke:
TheYogina:
It’s Just Imani:
THE SMITH’S FAMILY PRANKS:
Brunno Ferreira:
Chunky Medicine:
...Now re-listening to it... I've never related to anything more in my life.
🌆 • la simp de juleka • 🌆:
4rThur_:
Alexis Alexander:
Jaiii🥰:
Sayo:
Isabella Williams:
Stephanie Bensen:
Brandon E:
Mary Santos:
🌻SaRaH🌻:
Lyrics-
I'm sorry if I seem uninterested
Or I'm not listenin' or I'm indifferent
Truly, I ain't got no business here
But since my friends are here, I just came to kick it
But really I would rather be at home all by myself not in this room
With people who don't even care about my well being
I don't dance, don't ask, I don't need a boyfriend
So you can go back, please enjoy your party
I'll be here
Somewhere in the corner under clouds of marijuana
With this boy who's hollering, I can hardly hear
Over this music I don't listen to and I don't wanna get with you
So tell my friends that I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Excuse me if I seem a little unimpressed with this
An anti-social pessimist, but usually I don't mess with this
And I know you mean only the best
And your intentions aren't to bother me
But honestly I'd rather be
Somewhere with my people we can kick it and just listen
To some music with the message (like we usually do)
And we'll discuss our big dreams
How we plan to take over the planet
So pardon my manners, I hope you'll understand
That I'll be here
Not there in the kitchen with the girl
Who's always gossiping about her friends
So tell them I'll be here
Right next to the boy who's throwing up
'Cause he can't take what's in his cup no more
Oh God, why am I here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Hours later congregating next to the refrigerator
Some girl's talking 'bout her haters
She ain't got none
How did it ever come to this
I shoulda never come to this
So holla at me, I'll be in the car when you're done
I'm standoffish, don't want what you're offering
And I'm done talking
Awfully sad it had to be that way
So tell my people when they're ready that I'm ready
And I'm standing by the TV with my beanie low
Yo, I'll be over here
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
Oh, I ask myself what am I doing here?
Oh-oh-oh here, oh-oh-oh here
And I can't wait 'til we can break up out of here
Emily Kaplan:
ishowsym:
Carol Cancian:
Jerome Productions:
danmanryan17:
Karol Silva:
Luffy:
Rodrigo Damasceno batera:
FOXERINE:
Rosalba Merino mejia:
Baskerville1000:
Grant Weihl:
angel baby.:
LadyLotus:
Amanda Bucci:
Cristian Flores:
Maily Ledesma:
tamari woods:
Alessia Cara:
Ansun189:
1MightyR:
Trinity alpaka:
陳小春:
LaDonna Mechelle:
lasexual:
mela:
Vearnon:
Phone Pyae:
KrispyKidMari:
Hajarbel:
ikedi collins:
§øŃäŤůŘåŁŁý:
Kupkakee Sweetie:
Semira Roland:
Flyin tycoon:
Icy Fire:
EREN Q TE PISA:
Yonahonah:
selam temesgen:
Mathijs:
Shirley Nata Sasita:
Akasha Macintyre:
games visiteur:
Ana J:
Clinton Short:
Kiesha McCall: ImJustSerious:
Jubileen Harochoc Rebadeo:
Kiwanna Williams:
L :D:
Alexis Esparza:
DumbButSad:
Keon Swann:
Galaxysapphire:
Rodolfo Gonzalez:
Rice Noodles:
yellowbone:
Palak Kanwar:
c4n4l from anime and horror:
A M H:
As an introvert I hate parties , family reunions , meetings , etc...
A night alone with a laptop , a movie , and a comfy bed is heaven to me
Amber Faulkner:
Ken Herald:
Sol12:
Princess W. 👑: